How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do you have any attributes quirks sensitivities abilities etc that you've come to learn most people don't experience? E.g. dream with subtext or experience de ja vu regularly or know you experience life very differently from those around you etc?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What's an underrated/unknown novel or series that you think deserves more attention?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What are the pros and cons of arranged marriages?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

While on the surface of the moon, why isn’t the Apollo 11 spacesuit inflated like a balloon from the 3.7 psi internal pressure?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What do you think is the #1 cause of why relationships nowadays don't seem to last long?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do you consider masturbating to porn cheating if you are married?

That's it for today.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can you tell if someone or someone's is trying to recruit or at least test you for a secret organization?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Ask yourself:

What are the best items to buy from a furniture shop?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do not set goals—set systems.

You found a love potion, and your friend tried to use it on an attractive popular girl, but he accidentally dropped it on the neighbors dog. Now the dog won't stop following him. How would you help him?

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How are you spending your best time?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How did the trans issue metastasize within just a decade from being a question of kindness and tolerance to a tiny minority to convulsing a whole society?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What I need from you?